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My New Spiritual Home
Published on January 19, 2006 By JillUser In Religion

I humbly admit that until introduced to the term "Deism" by Myrrander, I had never heard of it.  When Myr set forth that I was deist rather than agnostic, I looked into it and indeed he was right.  Friends had always referred to me as agnostic so I accepted that term for lack of knowing a more fitting term.

I believe there is a God in the sense that there is a creator.  I don't believe there is an organized religion out there that has it right where God is concerned.  I always found organized religions to be too restrictive and circular in thinking.  Whenever anyone says they know what God wants, I cringe.  I believe God is far too complex for us to "know" anything about.

Agnostic wasn't really a bad fit either since I do believe you can neither prove nor disprove the existance of God.  I do know that not all of the organized religions can be right and it is far too exclusive for only one of them to be right.  Say christians have it right.  What happens to the devoted Jews, muslims, hindus, etc?  Is God only choosing some of the population to enlighten?  That doesn't jive with me.

I have noticed in my experience that the most devoutly religious people tend to live the most miserable lives.  I credit this to the fact that if they didn't believe there would be something better for them in the next life, they wouldn't be able to go on each day of this one. 

People say that everything happens for a reason and only God knows the greater purpose.  I don't buy that either.  Sometimes terrible things happen to wonderful people and there is no reason.

If you have your own opinions regarding things that I have brought up, please share them.  However, PLEASE do not come on here and quote scripture or preach to me the error of my ways.  I respect the fact that other people have different beliefs than my own and am interested in how they feel about it but I am done with being told why I am wrong in mine and where in the bible it says I'm wrong.  You can't convince me the bible is God's word by quoting the bible.  That is the circular reasoning that turns me off from organized religion.

So please come here, tell me what you believe, don't believe, or what religion you have faith in but don't preach.  I am so done with that that I will remove scripture quotes and ban you.


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on Jan 19, 2006
Hey, I'm glad that little article and discussion interested you so much! Although "deism" is sort of an anachronistic term, I think a lot of folks would fall into that category. Honestly, of all the theists I encounter, folks like yourself would be my preference every time. I used to spend a lot of time with the Unitarians (when I still lived in a place with a Unitarian church), and they taught me a lot about deism -- some deists pray to a generic (although I hate to use that term, it isn't quite right) "creator," and others think that the universe has a creator who made the thing and then left it alone, taking no active role in the day to day affairs of said universe (not that those two camps encompass all Unitarians...the "unity" means one of people getting together rather than a unity of belief).

In popular fiction, I suppose the best example of deism I can think of would be how Tolkien treats the creator of his world in the Middle Earth books. C.S. Lewis also has a rather uninvolved godhead (the Emperor-over-the-sea), but has his character Aslan fulfill the role of a more active deity. On the other hand, J.K. Rowling's books seem entirely devoid of any deities whatsoever, with the "magic" of Harry and gang being treated more like a science. And sorry if all that fantasy nerd stuff bored you (hehe).

That my article made you look into it and then post this makes the discussion we had on my thread perhaps my favorite one I've had here. I've also yet to mention it, but good luck to you and Brad with a new little one on the way.

Cheers.
on Jan 19, 2006
p.s. and as I mentioned on that other thread, some of the greatest thinkers ever (including many of the founders of this country) were deists of some form or another, which puts you in pretty good company
on Jan 19, 2006
I'm Christian. Christianity makes sense to me. I see the logic in it and it's helped me to deal with stuff in life, and it's helped me to "rationalize" those "bad things that happen to good people."

I agree with you that we can't really know the entire nature of God--in my case of course I'm talking about the Christian God. I have a relationship with him, but I can't know everything about Him or understand all His reasoning because He is God. I feel like I can prove God, but my proof doesn't equate proof in anyone else's life but my own. God is someone you have to experience for myself. I daresay that my Christian journey is far different than anyone else's, just because we're unique people.

While Christianity works for me, I can see why lots of people get turned off by it. There's lots of people out there who label themselves "Christian" but don't lead Christian lives. There are Christians out there who are totally self-righteous and in your face about it all the time, too, and I don't think that's okay, either. Then there's all this talk about blood and death and dead people raising from the dead and these high unattainable standards. It's tough stuff. I feel lucky that I was brought up in it and that I *CHOSE* to follow it. I also know there's lots of paradoxial stuff in the Bible. To be honest, it doesn't always make sense to me either, in that I'm supposed to be *living* those things.

Ummmm...does any of this make sense?
on Jan 19, 2006

I'm a desit/buddhist/gnostic/taoist.  I find a lot of sense in the teachings of the Buddha and also in the Tao.  I believe in a supreme being or deity, but I don't buy into the Christian teachings regarding God.

I'm not a very good Buddhist sometimes, and I know it.  However, I have come a long way since I started following the dharma path, and I know that I'm making progress spiritually because I can feel it.

As for my beliefs....well, I believe in reincarnation.  I believe that some of us are old souls, and some of us are newer souls (Edgar Cayce wrote some interesting articles on old and new souls).  I think that us old souls (and you are one, Debbie, as am I....and LW, and Nic, and Angie) can recognize each other, and we can also recognize newer souls (who tend to migrate towards faith systems that have pretty clear instructions and dogmas attached to them.  Nothing wrong with that, it's just the way it is.  Old souls tend to be deists, more liberal about their beliefs). I honestly believe that death isn't the complete end, it's just a transition.  For example, my burial reflects my beliefs.  I'm not going to be embalmed, and I'm not having a wood coffin.  I'm going to be in a biodegradable cardboard box, and I'm going to have a tree planted above my grave.  That way, what's left of me will decay and will, in part, feed that tree.  My soul will be free and will go on - to where, I don't know - but my body (the cloak of molecules and cells that I wore when I lived on earth) will live on, just in a different form.  I'll be worm and plant food.  I'll be back in the life cycle again.  I think that's really very cool.

 

on Jan 19, 2006
sorry if all that fantasy nerd stuff bored you (hehe).


I love fantasy nerd stuff! Maybe I connect with it in ways I hadn't realized.

I've also yet to mention it, but good luck to you and Brad with a new little one on the way.


Thank you very much.

some of the greatest thinkers ever (including many of the founders of this country) were deists of some form or another, which puts you in pretty good company


And thanks again!

Ummmm...does any of this make sense?


Yes it does Marcie and I am happy for you that you have a relationship with God. Everyone has their own journey, their own path. Like you said, we are unique. Perhaps some people are born "knowing" how they fit in the great scheme of things and maybe others will spend the majority of their life figuring it out.

I appreciate your kind comment. You are a credit to your faith.
on Jan 19, 2006
Karen, I think you and my dad are cut from the same cloth. Your wishes for burial sound like my dad's except he thinks we should just toss him in the woods

I have indeed been called an old soul for as long as I can remember. I was very mature for my age and felt almost burdened by the things that I thought and worried about at an early age when all my girlfriends had on their minds were boys and clothes. Ignorance is bliss after all.

I am not afraid of death and hope that their is more to life afterward. I really love the here and now though. I get to enjoy great people such as yourself.
on Jan 19, 2006
I am a Christian and I agree with my sister Marcie, there are so many people using the name of "Christian" to hide their own agendas that makes my stomach churn when I see what they do. A true Christian will be easy to identify by his/hers fruits, that is what Christ says, Christ sopke about how if you truly follow him, you will be despise, ridiculize and hated by this world, right now 99% of what TV shows as "Christian" is a big mockery of Christ teachings, it is sad, but as the book of Revelation warned us, there would be a big fallout in the end times, many will betray Christ and live a form of "godliness". many will profess to be Christians but their fruits are evil. Christ himself said because you are not cold or hot, but lukewarm I will spite you out of my mouth. Right now we are leaving in a generation of lukewarm Christians who use the church as a trampolin to make money lying to people and making a mockery of God, but they fail to realize that God is not mock, He sees everything and one day they will have to give an account of their wicked, evil deeds on this Earth. Until then, don't judge all the Christians by what many do, but look at the fruits and you will identify the true Christians.
on Jan 20, 2006
Well...I'm a Christian. grew up Catholic and Lutheran and then my mom started going to Assemblies of God because she wanted more out of church...wanted to be more involved. I started attending and was freaked out...it really scared me for a while because it was something I wasnt used to. Now, I realize that I was feeling the presence of God. Not going to preach, per yer request...but in that church with all of those people singing and worshipping...I felt a connection I had never felt before. I started reading my Bible more often and felt like something was changing in me. I soon came to find that I could have a relationship with Christ and put my life in his hands. Since I have done that...I have been through ups and downs and been places I never thought I would be....but I am a much much stronger person because of that. When Im alone and I pray to God...I can feel His presence. I lay my problems at his feet and he takes care of them for me. The Bible offends me in a sense as well. It says something many other beliefs don't. It says that I am not perfect and I can't make it on my own and it is right. I need something other than myself. I have a big emptyness in my life. I can fill that up with anything I try..but that void is only filled by God. Since God filled that void....I have been complete (outside of the void he gave me for someone else in my life here on earth...aka....Marcie...who has perfeclty filled that spot). I have ups and downs...I know I dont live the best I can sometimes, but I try. For me....I know God exsists.

I wish i could explain it better....but I cant. It has been a totally life changing thing in my life and I would have it no other way.
on Jan 20, 2006
I believe in G-d, but I don't believe in Christ (as the son of G-d).

I believe that the Bible was written by very wise leaders of the Jewish people and for me writing down good laws per se and being inspired by G-d to do so is the same thing. If something is right, I assume it is G-d's influence. There is no difference that I could tell.

I also believe that the laws of the Bible only apply to Jews. I do not believe that anybody else has to follow them. I do believe that there are some rules that apply to everyone, but there are very few such rules. I will not quote them here. And I will not attempt to analyse them.

I am glad that you also believe in G-d and I agree with you that He created the world and didn't interfere with it afterwards (this is what I understand Deism is about). As I said, I cannot tell a difference between a man writing down what is good and a man writing down the same text while being inspired by G-d. There is no way to measure that. For all I know G-d's indirect influence and no influence at all are physically the same thing.

Perhaps the laws I follow are idiotic. Perhaps they are not what G-d wanted. But I am sure they are not contrary to His will. And following them (to the extent I understand them, I do not follow laws I don't understand) gives me a sense of identity, and that is, perhaps, what matters.


on Jan 20, 2006
I'm a Secular Humanist, a most misunderstood view of the world. We believe in the importance of doing good deeds in this world, of being good to people here and now. I don't know if there is or isn't a Creator, but in terms of what I do on a daily basis it is irrelevant. I do good deeds as I can, not for a reward in the Afterlife, but for the reward that good actions give in this life.

I am also Jewish, by birth and by culture. There is no no difficulty reconciling my Judaism and my secularism. Please see Link

The founders of Israel and the Zionist movement could be described as Jewish Secular Humanists, which is why Israel is not a Theocracy. The founders of the United States, Ben Franklin in particular, subscribed to a similiar philosophy. See Link

All religions have both a moral and a ritual component. I agree with with colleague Andrew Brehm that the Bible (Old Testament) was the thinking of the best minds of the Jewish people at the time. I would further state the New Testament is also a moral document, written by the best minds of that time. I just think that I can embrace the moral concepts without being compelled to follow the ritual.

Simply put, I believe that if there is a Creator, He or She cares more that we try to help each day than that we participate in rituals. And if there ISN'T a Creator, then the good deeds are there own reward.

on Jan 20, 2006

have noticed in my experience that the most devoutly religious people tend to live the most miserable lives.

Oh, I dont know about that.  Seems Pat Robertson and Jerry Falwell are living pretty well!

Everyone knows I am Catholic.  And like you indicate, it is a belief since no religion can be proven.

Actually Religion is just an organized way of professing yoru belief in God, and so it is made by man, not God.  Faith is from God.

on Jan 20, 2006
My beliefs are identical to yours, Jill. Organized religion, while a comfort to millions, doesn't comfort me. There may be a creator, and in some sense I hope there is/was, but if not, the good in the world is just that much greater.

Cheers,
Daiwa
on Jan 20, 2006

I started attending and was freaked out...it really scared me for a while because it was something I wasnt used to. Now, I realize that I was feeling the presence of God.

What you just said is something that I have a huge problem with in organized religion.  Why did you have to be freaked out and scared before you then "realized" that it was the presence of "God"?  To somebody who is not Christian, that sounds like religious brain washing.  Why do you have to organize to find God?  Shouldn't that feeling have always been with you?

I *wish* that I could believe in the Christian God.  I wish that I could believe that there is something after death that I will remember.  It would be so comforting.  It would be great to think that there is a higher power that is looking over us and that my time on Earth is just the beginning.  But, I can't believe that.  I have been put under for operations too many times and know what it's like for your thoughts to stop.  It's nothing.  Nothing at all.  Just empty time.  And, I'm OK with that.  It makes me enjoy every day as much as I can.  It makes me want to enrich other peoples lives.  It makes me embrace my family and take life by the horns.

I don't think that I would be the same person that I am if I was Christian.  I would have a different view, and I would focus on "life" after death.  And, I would simply brush every thing off as "gods will" as I hear so many Christians do.  Instead, I take full accountability for all my actions and all my thoughts.  I know that the only force that "makes" me be me, is me.  I live an ethical life, and I do what I can to help others and Mother Earth, but I don't do anything for the pure reason that it's the "good Christian" thing to do.  I am empowered by myself, not "God".  Heaven and Hell are both on Earth, and once I die, I'm nothing but worm food and compost.  And, I'm totally cool with that.

on Jan 20, 2006
I believe in God. I don't always think it's worthy of being worshipped - sometimes its sick sense of humour is a bit too much - but in general I'd rather believe than be an atheist and think that just because it's not a nice guy, consistent or even worth worshipping it doesn't exist - although of course one could attribute with ease everything I call divinity to simple random chance.

In which case I suppose that the manifestation of my belief is a fervent faith in random chance, which is neither here nor there.
on Jan 20, 2006

I think that us old souls (and you are one, Debbie, as am I....and LW, and Nic, and Angie) can recognize each other, and we can also recognize newer souls (who tend to migrate towards faith systems that have pretty clear instructions and dogmas attached to them. Nothing wrong with that, it's just the way it is. Old souls tend to be deists, more liberal about their beliefs).

I think that you are right with that.  I have met a lot of "old souls".  My husband is one.  He has abilities that he can't explain.  He just knows things without being taught.  I, to a degree, am the same.  I have odd artistic abilities that I was born with, and I find certain things calming that have no relevance in my life. 

I could believe in reincarnation.  After all, energy can neither be created nor destroyed, so if a "soul" is energy (there is an "if" there) then it would make sense that it would transfer.  I don't believe in reincarnation in the way that you could remember a past life, or that you "live" on, but rather a transfer of energy.  I guess the closest thing to a "religion" that I can believe in is the Over Soul.  When people ask me what I believe in, I say: "I'm a Buddhist with a Transcendental Twist".  It's the closest explanation that I can come up with right now.  But, at some point, I may be enlightened to something else, so I keep my mind open.

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