It is a strange thing to deal with and I think a lot of people think I'm not aware of their opinion of me but I can tell a lot of people think I am subservient because I am a home maker. My husband and I agreed quite openly that if I am to stay home full time that I am to take care of pretty much everything around the house. Most people simply can't understand that.
I think a lot of my friends are career women who try to relate my lifestyle to their own. They can't undrestand why I take out the garbage, do yard work, take care of the car maintenance, etc. Sure, they share household duties with their spouses because they also work out of the home.
I am also mainly the one responsible for the children. My husband spends as much time as he possibly can with them and often takes over so I can have a break. I don't see how I could ask for more. I just don't understand why so many people say that caring for your family is the most important job there is then talk down to me like "Oh, you're just a home maker". I think there is a bit of envy involved.
I can't help but feel that some of these people I have experienced this with wish they could be in my position but would have to sacrifice financially. In order to reconcile this with their ego, they have to tear me down. They either treat me like I don't really work or they act like they feel sorry for me. I just don't understand it.