The adventures of Mommy woman

The time has come where I feel the need to be totally open about who I really am.  It has never really been a true secret but I never used real names before and was cautious about what I blogged about.

The reason I started blogging with an assumed name is because I wanted to see how I did on my own merits.  I didn't want any unearned fans or enemies due to who I am associated with.  Also, it has been kind of fun being Jill.

Most of you here have seen pictures of me and my family whether you knew it or not.  Some of you figured it out long ago but went along with honoring my anonymity.  I thank you for that.

So, my real name is Debbie Wardell.  Yep, I'm Brad's wife.  I'm Alex and Ryan's mom.  Now I can use names instead of saying "my husband" "my 9yr old" or "my 5yr old".

Brad and I will probably both be blogging about similar family subjects coming up.  That is another reason I figured I would "come clean".  I hope this doesn't change anyone's opinion of me (for the worse anyway ).


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on Jan 09, 2006
Wow...maybe I've been hiding under a rock or something, but I didn't know that. And no, it doesn't change my opinion about you. I see you as a sensible, well thought out, friendly blogger...and I will continue seeing you in that light.
on Jan 09, 2006
Why thank you very much InBloom!
on Jan 09, 2006
GASP!!!!!!!!!

Oh, pretty cool.
on Jan 09, 2006
The reason I started blogging with an assumed name is because I wanted to see how I did on my own merits.... I hope this doesn't change anyone's opinion of me

Only in that we see more of you and despite (or because of) that, we still come and read.
You just come out and show as much of yourself as you feel comfortable with. I like to think of JU as a community of friends, anyway. Other than the flame-warriors on the political and current events sides of the house...

I see you as a sensible, well thought out, friendly blogger

As do I. Keep the articles coming!
on Jan 09, 2006
Even though I didn't give it too much thought, I always kinda guessed at you being Brad's wife, just because of certain things you've written in the past hinted heavily at it. Kinda cool to have it confirmed

I don't know about others here, but this "revelation" doesn't impact my view of you or your writing. I enjoy reading what you write and hope you keep at it! Who we are in "real life" isn't quite as important here as how we present ourselves and how we act, and you've always presented yourself very well.
on Jan 09, 2006
Of course not. Like coming "out" if you were gay!
on Jan 09, 2006
*Gasp*!  *Horror!*  How could you deceive me this way?  Oh...wait...I know you in real life....never mind. (Brad is my boss in case anyone didn't know that...)
on Jan 09, 2006
MM knew this, but appreciates the whys and wherefores of "hiding" your true Identity.


Now it's really out in the open.

Debbie wardell is the secret identity of JILLUSER!!!
on Jan 09, 2006
WOW!

I did NOT see that one coming. It all adds up though! Wonder why I never made the connection before?

Well, I have to say, my opinion of Brad has gone WAAAAY up (not to imply that it was horrible to begin with, haha)! What a smart guy, marrying a girl like you! Hehe.
on Jan 09, 2006
Wow, cool!
on Jan 09, 2006
Like Zoomba, I kind of figured it out by the way Brad seemed to be very protective of you, and the name was kind of a give away.  But it is nice to meet you!
on Jan 09, 2006
Now it's really out in the open.
Debbie wardell is the secret identity of JILLUSER!!!


And to think all these years I couldn't tell your true identity. Must have been the glasses, Mr. Kent.
on Jan 09, 2006
GASP!!!!!!!!!

Oh, pretty cool.


Why thank you SPC NS.

You just come out and show as much of yourself as you feel comfortable with


That I will do singrave.

Kinda cool to have it confirmed


I figured that might be the case for some. Thanks Zoomba.

Of course not. Like coming "out" if you were gay!


Yeah, cuz that never changed a person's relationship




*Gasp*! *Horror!* How could you deceive me this way?


Cute. Thanks for playing along all this time.
on Jan 09, 2006
Wait a minute...Statue of Liberty..that was OUR planet! You maniacs! You blew it up! Damn you! Damn you all to hell!
on Jan 09, 2006
I had a suspicion that you might've known Brad in real life--but married to him...never would've have guessed it...
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