I have talked to a lot of friends about their mothers. Relationships range from being totally estranged to being like best friends. I find it fascinating how parental relationships affect how people mature and evolve.
I am extremely fortunate in the parent department. Don't get me wrong, my parents certainly have flaws but doling out unconditional love and acceptance has not been one of them. My parents always made me feel loved and valued. I never had to worry about not being able to go to them with anything. I knew they would help me no matter what.
I was also always aware that that wasn't neccessarily the norm. I appreciated what I had from a very early age. My friends would ask my mom questions they were afraid to ask their own mothers. I felt very fortunate.
I think my close relationship with my parents is what has lead to me being such a self assured, well grounded, stable adult. What is your relationship like and how do you think it impacted who you've become?