We live in such a wonderful neighborhood. Every month I have been given new affirmation to why we moved here. The most recent was a couple of minutes ago. A neighbor was delivering the neighborhood directory that we ordered and mentioned that a fellow neighbor was recently diagnosed with breast cancer. She asked if I knew the family and I didn't. When I asked why she said she was asking around to see if neighbors would be willing to cook a meal for the family in the upcoming month when she would be having chemo. I told her that not currently knowing her didn't prevent me from wanting to help.
This poor family has a 4yr old and a 6 month old. The woman was just diagnosed and will begin chemotherapy in the next week or so. I signed up to bring them dinner on 11/12. I was very pleased that the calendar for Nov had already been almost filled by neighbors wanting to help. That is the kind of wonderful people we have in our neighborhood.
I plan to call this neighbor in the upcoming days to see if I can help out in other ways. Perhaps I can pick up groceries, watch the kids, vac the floors, whatever might be the thing that needs to be done and this poor family just won't have the time or energy to do it. I can't imagine what they are going through and pray that I never have that experience myself. I suspect I will have plenty of help if I do though.
I ask this, anyone who has gone through a drawn out illness, what are some things you would have loved to have someone, anyone come in and do?