The adventures of Mommy woman
Published on August 13, 2008 By JillUser In Blogging

Most of us know what is good for us.  Knowing it and doing it are very different things.  How many times do we say "I know I should exercise, but..." or "I know this pop isn't good for me, but...".  We make decisions between knowing and doing constantly.

I am addicted to coffee and chocolate.  I KNOW that for a fact.  I have tried to cut them out of my day before and am not convinced that my life will be good without them.  I am aided in my addiction by some reports that say that coffee and chocolate are good for you.  That way I don't KNOW that I should give them up.  Besides, I get so much enjoyment out of them, they'd have to be a cut and dry risk in order for me to give them up.

I read a study about heart patients a few days ago.  It said that even though they were told that if they didn't change their bad habits (drinking, smoking, overeating, etc.) they would be dead in a matter of a couple of years, 70% didn't change their lifestyle one bit.  My take on this is the "it won't happen to me" attitude.  Hey, they lived through one heart attack, why wouldn't they make it through another?

I do know that pop, chips and sweets aren't good for me.  I just haven't been doing enough with that knowledge lately.  I also know that I have a slow metabolism and need to get a lot of exercise or I will balloon up.  I haven't been doing enough with that knowledge lately either.

I have a million excuses as to why I haven't been DOING.  Some are even pretty valid.  I think I just hadn't committed to the fact that I HAVE to do something about these things.  When you feel you HAVE to do something, you usually find a way to do it.

So I'm now at the point of KNOWING and feeling I HAVE to be DOING.


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on Aug 13, 2008
Anyways, my apologies, Jill for derailing your thread.


No problem. I had the same reaction.
on Aug 14, 2008

Hmm, I hear ya about the chocolate addiction, and I too have to have at least one cup of joe in the morning!  Recently I've not been too bad with my chocoholicism, but I've been going nutty for nuts! Always something!

on Aug 15, 2008

I've changed the way I eat and exercise through my whole life.  However, I get lazy and just don't do it now and then.  Lately, I've been in a habit of exercising (elliptical and recumbent bike- two of the machines my Dr approves).  How did I do it?  I put a TV in my work out room.  The cat hates me for it (that's her room) but she'll get over it.

I won't give up coffee.  It's the one vice I'm keeping.  I only drink soda a couple times a week (if that), I hardly ever drink, and I gave up ice cream.  But, dammit!  My coffee stays!

I think that you have to get to a point that you know that you have to make a change and that you WANT to make that change.  Knowing that you should do it isn't enough.

 

on Aug 15, 2008

I think that you have to get to a point that you know that you have to make a change and that you WANT to make that change. Knowing that you should do it isn't enough.

Exactly.  Once you decide you HAVE to do it, you find a way.

on Aug 16, 2008
I have a million excuses as to why I haven't been DOING.


It seems I must have tried to give up cigarettes a million times, yet I continue to kill myself. ( 
on Aug 17, 2008
It seems I must have tried to give up cigarettes a million times, yet I continue to kill myself.


I've heard that is one of the most difficult addictions to kick. I guess if you are convinced it will kill you and you are convinced you don't want to die, you will find a way to quit.

Best wishes.
on Aug 18, 2008
I've heard that is one of the most difficult addictions to kick.


Since the days as a kid when "loosies" along with a wooden match were sold for a penny, the nasty things have been such an integral part of me[along with coffee] that I subconsciously trigger off the conviction to quit. Thanks for your best wishes.
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