The adventures of Mommy woman
Which is harder?
Published on August 4, 2004 By JillUser In Philosophy

I grew up in the country and a lot of people would have categorized my family as poor when I was really young.  My parents were really young, came from poor families (by anyone's standards) and were building their own house from the ground up (literally because they built the hill that they built the house into).  We had hand-me-down or hand made clothes.  We grew a lot of our own food and lived off from canning a lot of it.

I never knew what I was missing and I had a beautiful environment to distract me from what I didn't have.  That is why I have recently had the thought that being poor in the country must be easier than being poor in the city.  In the city, you are surrounded by all the things you can't afford.  It is a constant reminder of what you don't have.  In the country you have the beauty of nature that a lot of people travel to visit.

In the country you can grow/raise food.  Running around bare foot is safe in the country.  Matter of fact, everything is much safer in the country.  Although having a sparse population has its challenges too.  You might not have a bunch of people around to rob you but you also don't have anyone around to look out for you.  I know quite a few people who died from farm related accidents that would have lived if anyone would have been around to find them within hours of the accident.

I will take financially well off in the suburbs over poor in the country any day   I think though, if I came on hard times again, I would prefer to be in the country.


Comments
on Aug 04, 2004
I think what is really overlooked in all our "social" discussions is the idea that "poor" need not be a "disadvantaged" state. I have known a lot of "low income" people that have lived simply and happily, especially in the country, whereas the poor I have known in urban areas always seemed to be more "struggling" and disadvantaged by their poverty.

I guess it comes down to choice. To me it seems that most people in the country choose to lead a more simply, humble life, whereas people in cities seem to feel that the lifestyle is forced on them. My own skewed perspective, granted, your own mileage may vary. I know that we make considerably more here in Lexington and have more "comfort", and I was much, much less-stressed and happy in the country.

Insighful as always .


on Aug 04, 2004
Thanks Bakerstreet.  You are definitely right that people in the country lead a more simple, humble life.  I get teased about my bumpkin upbringing a lot but I wouldn't change it if I could.  I've experienced a lot of exciting things and visitied some exotic places, but I sure miss Summers picking raspberries, blackberries and morel mushrooms.  Simple, free but wonderful!
on Aug 04, 2004
I don't think you can even really compare the two; the differances are just too large.

I will take financially well off in the suburbs over poor in the country any day


Personally, I would choose poor in the country.

/sigh someday...
on Aug 05, 2004
Jill, the spirit of Jefferson,along with his dream of an agrarian society, would love you. Thanks for a very sensitive blog.
on Aug 05, 2004

Abe, now that I have money to afford all of the creature comforts and location where everything is within minutes, I have a hard time going back to the super slow pace of country living.  I grew up on 17 acres and everything was at least a 15-20 minute drive.  I enjoy my corner market, gas station and the ability to order pizza on a whim.  I do miss the country terribly in the Summer.  Not so much in the Winter since I barely have to shovel snow where I live now compared to getting snowed in on a regular basis where I grew up.  The skiers sure love it up there though.


Stevendedalus, thanks for the nice comment.

on Aug 05, 2004
Grew up in suburbia, went to college in Arkansas, been broke everywhere; I like it better in the country, but if you run around barefoot safely where you are, you must not live in a garden of earthly delights that enjoys the treasures of yellowjackets, bull nettles, thistles, blackberry patches, mesquite trees, blisterbugs, fire ants, regular ants, cow ants, dogs, pigs, chickens, cows, or sharp pointy rocks.....ah those were the good ole days....
on Aug 05, 2004
We had yellwjackets, thistles, blackberry patches, ants, dogs, etc.  That stuff can hurt or stink but didn't do permanent damage like the constant broken glass and other crap constantly strewn about in the city.