In another blog about questioning God I made the comment that just as I expect my children to question me, I'm sure god expects us to question him. Another blogger "corrected" me by saying that I was wrong because I didn't create my children, God did. So, what do you think on that subject?
I think God created my children in the same way my great grandparents did. My husband and I had total control over when we chose to have children. We chose their names, how to raise them, etc. I'm pretty sure, and as it should be, my children look to my husband and me as their "creators".
I'm sure parents of adopted children are going to take issue with this subject. I'm sure they feel God created the children and then gave them to them. I say God doesn't give you anything. You still CHOSE to be parents. You still decide how to raise the child and, like it or not, the child's biological parents brought them into this world by their own actions and decisions.
Adults look to God for comfort and answers. Children look to their parents for the same. Personally, I don't give God credit and blame for everything that happens in my life. Babies don't just happen. I can only think of one instance where it was claimed that a baby was conceived without any action taken by the mother to cause it.