I am a happy person. I like who I am (for the most part) and think people appreciate that. I am not, however, particularly confident.
My sister has always had a confidence that I didn't. She has the ability to put herself out there and show no doubt. I, on the other hand, am always filled with doubt. I never assume to know anything more than anyone else on any subject other than what pertains to my specific life. I don't believe I have any particular talent. I don't see myself as anything special.
Don't get me wrong, I think I am a valuable person and I am not a doormat. I am a good wife, mother, friend, etc. But I see talent in pretty much everyone other than myself. I see the confidence in those teenagers on American Idol and am perfectly baffled. Where does that come from?!
Luckily my kids seem to be pretty confident. It seems like something they were just born with. If it is something that I fostered in them, I am unaware that I've done it. I feel it is a question of nurture or nature that is unexplained.